
What's with the pink hat? Read on...
Dear Mr. Kloska & Family~
Ok, so there are a couple of instances when John touched my life and Mr. Kloska, or for you all in the family, Bobby-ha, asked me to write about them and send the pictures. He asked me to tell you everything and leave no details out, so I apologize ahead of time for the length of this email, I will leave nothing out-haha.
**Spes Unica: When I first met John, I was on the Spes Unica retreat. I am sure all of you know what that is....Well, he was so funny and warm and just very open with me. I was in the stage of becoming Catholic. John was one of the first people I met and one of the most lasting people in my mind. The first night we were there he offered to walk to "Scary Mary" with me. On the way there we would laugh and joke, but the minute we stepped in front of her, he was so serious and so involved with his faith. I asked him how he could be so strong in his faith and just believe...He looked me in the eyes and said, "Elitia, you can not question God." This quote brings me to tears every time I think about it or read it, b/c it has gotten me through so much and stuck with me since that night. Later that night he and I were talking further about faith and he told me this quote: "When we don't even know what questions to ask, faith supplies us with answers, and when we lose our way, it is faith that leads us home." (I have some of our discussions written in my Steno Pad and so some words may be a little different then how he said them, but it is mostly the same.) The next thing to happen that same night is that Hope and I have matching pink hats and we dared him to wear it the rest of the weekend, and despite all of the side comments from the guys, he did-haha. John's sense of humor never failed. If you will notice in the Spes Unica brochure pic he is wearing it-ha. I can tell all of you that John was all about his family and would always talk so highly of all of you. He loved everything about his family and would try to get me to memorize all of your names, but I failed miserably-sorry, but I am bad with that many names-haha. John left me with a lasting impact that weekend, b/c we shared some same struggles and not only did he help me to see the plusses of becoming Catholic, he gave me strength in myself and God.
To be continued...